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Originally Posted by tecoyah
Consider this.....pretty much any relationship is doomed in the context presented in the OP. Ask yourselves how many relationships you have had, then how many are active right now.
4 to 1?
20 to 1?
15 to 0?
The point is, every single relationship we have has a very good chance of failure ( as in not lasting forever), thus making claims about a Poly relationship is a rather Null Point in my opinion.
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I suppose its how you look at it.
While I've had my share of relationships, only one have I called my wife and that hasn't failed.
I assume that level of commitment in a poly relationship as my baseline. If the definition is something far looser and then yes it is doomed to 'fail' because the foundation was never there for it to last.
What I would expect would be the husband/wife level of love only not just between one pair in the couple. That to me would be a true polyarmorus relationship.