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Originally Posted by Aladdin Sane
My wife has never had an orgasm from penetration or thrusting of any kind. She is a clit gal all the way. It typically takes her 15-20 minutes of oral to cum.
I would love to experience a girl who enjoys being penetrated.
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That's me as well. Believe me, I ENJOY being penetrated... that's not the problem. The problem is that other than masturbating with a vibrator, I can't come from vaginal penetration, period, and with oral, it still takes 15-20 minutes (if I'm pulling on the bedframe to clench my abs; otherwise I might never come). If I'm doing it myself (i.e. fingering myself like mad during anal), then it does happen much faster... but that depends on a lot of other things as well.
I think in general, I have to be super turned on and wet (lots of foreplay and mood-setting, e.g. anticipation/secrecy, music, lighting, dirty talk) in order to come quickly, and that doesn't happen often. Most of my orgasms come from oral (slow) or masturbation (too fast, and rather lonely), that's it. It's extremely frustrating.