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So um, on a sidenote:
How did you get into these poly and swinger relationships (those who have been in them)? I mean, have you always been the type of person who is not easily jealous? Did you have to "train" yourself to deal with these emotions and feelings?
I've always been interested in swinging - not polymory. I'm not interested in another emotionally intimate relationship. But, I know I'm not emotionally ready for it yet. Physically however, I am.
I'm worried this type of thing would ruin my relationship, and I'm not even sure if my partner would want to have physical relations with another person. I'm not sure if this is considered swinging - but we introduced another female into my sex life, just once, and it was clear that I was the one to be touching the woman. So, technically, I wouldn't call it a threesome? Our relationship recovered, and it wasn't very hard on it. But, I'm sure my boyfriend wouldn't be very interested in just loaning me out for sex whenever I wanted.
Anyways, just interested in how this stuff all works itself out.
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