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Originally Posted by rr1024
Again we disagree, we've been swinging for about 20 years now an in the first 4 years we met several long term friends
who we of course still swing with and we go out and do other things with. In fact just last week 8 of us went to an all day wine fest and we didn't do anything after...everyone just went home. Too buzzed I think "laughing"
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Thats great and it does happen, our best friends are swingers, but its still the biggest complaint among swingers that forming friendships just doesn't happen often.
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Actually I think that statement is totally incorrect, maybe you should check craigs list or as I said before actually read some of the swingers profiles. There has always been plenty of bimales and couples who accept them. Traditionally most profiles were writen so as not to scare away the "Str8" couples....most of the time when swingers or polyamorist profile says bifemale and the "male" states Not stated, no sexual stated or other such terms then they generally are accepting bimales or other couples with bimales... Bimales have only been shunned by of course those who are str8....and generally most of those str8's have had bimales in the room with them but they just didn't know it....
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Try going to a swing club. Just about all of them ban bi-male activities. Its economic, their clientèle as a whole doesn't want to see it, nor do they want to deal with gay prostitutes. If you think male bisexuality is accepted in swinging, you need to meet more swingers. Undoubtedly there are bi-males in swinging, but if you want to have fun, find a swinger web site and complain about the plight of the 'double standard' between bi males and bi females and see where that goes.
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It sounds like the post above is referring to Polygamy as Polyamory....
I think some of you spouting the differences in Polyamory and Swingers should take a 1/2hr and if you have show time watch Penn and teller bull shit about Polyamory....very good and in fact I've been to the "Polyamory" retreat featured on that show about 3 months before it aired...
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Generally I think most 'poly' relationships are B.S. and are all destined to an early failure. That doesn't mean under the right circumstances it couldn't work. The B.S. part is that a majority of people who SAY they are poly are not, which is the point I was driving at before, but I would not say ALL poly relationships are B.S.