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This thought is always in the back of my mind when I'm thinking about the shaved/waxed issue. Sure, a guy doesn't think about kids when he sees a woman's bare pussy... but what about the reverse, when he's changing a baby girl's diaper and has to touch and look at bare labia... is there even a millisecond's flash of a sexual thought/reference, in that moment? I'd like to hear an honest response on that, from the *fathers* in the group. Is it just a totally different thing, you make no connection between the two, and therefore my fears are unfounded? Or is there something to it... even though most people would never admit it, for fear of being accused of pedophilia? I'm honestly asking.

I'd also like to know the age spread on the guy's poll responses, because I think one's exposure to porn (different generations) *does* shape what you'd like to see on a woman. For that, I wish we were all back in the 70s.

Anyway, trimmed but natural look here... occasionally, I like it when my husband gets out his electric razor and trims me closer than usual (that method doesn't produce razor burn or ingrown hairs, which is why I like it), but otherwise, I prefer hair. I feel much more womanly and comfortable when I have my dark, natural-looking "triangle" of hair down there, and I keep it as neat and trimmed as I can. It just feels wrong to look like a 10 year old (to me).

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