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Hmm. I can't really add much. I do live in North Carolina though so I can talk about what goes on here.
In my family, my grandparents are racists. They don't think they are, but they are. My parents aren't -- to a degree. Once my dad told me that I could date any girl I wanted as long as she wasn't black, and he honestly saw nothing wrong with it except a chance for his reputation to be damaged (other people in our town seeing his son with a nigger would surely cause reputation damage).
I assume that even if girls are attracted to you, and are attracted to Indian guys, being attracted to you and actually dating you are two completely different things. It's hard to date someone of a different ethnic decent when you have your family BEGGING you to not embarass them with a non-whitey.
You need to find a girl that doesn't give a shit what her family thinks, or who comes from a family of intellectually and socially advanced people who also don't give a shit what their neighbors think.
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