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Originally Posted by Racnad
...she feels that my expectation of a 39 year old spouse who still looks forward to being in bed with her husband and enjoys having sex in a variety of positions and places is not realistic.
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I don't feel that your expectations are unrealistic.
I find myself in similar curcumstance, and I don't not have a solution. 18 years married myself, sex started declining shortly into it. I have found however that we are not alone. I may have mentioned this in another thread too long ago, but if your interested in it you might want to visit....
http://www.divorcebusting.com/sex_quiz.htm
Re: Averages and polls here's a quote from the book...
"It's not about numbers. Since, unlike vitamins, there are no recommended daily requirements to insure a healthy sex life, a sex-starved marriage is more about the fallout that occurs when one spouse is deeply unhappy with his/her sexual relationship and this unhappiness is ignored, minimized, or dismissed."
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Originally Posted by cyklone
your ability to communicate emotionally and your willingness to be "vulnerable" to them.
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Cyklone - would you be so kind as to describe some concrete ways in which a man can communicate emotionally, and be vunerable ?
It might do us all a great service if you could.