Hrm. As an Air Force brat born in the South and planted firmly back in home soil, I have to say: I looooooooove Indian guys. And Asian men. And-- well, show me a guy who is sweet, cute, smart, and takes good care of himself, and he's likely to get an invitation to the StellaLuna International Equal Opportunity Boy Harem. (I'm a collector.) Are you living in a big city in Virginia? Or a teeny podunk town? We Southern ladies can sometimes hop to conclusions quickly, and the fewer opportunities a person has had to interact with anything "new" (person, place, or thing) can lead to quicker conclusion-jumping. If I've only seen blue people on TV, and think they're all scary, I'm not going to do well with them in person. However, if I went to classes with blue people, I'll have an easier time sitting and talking to one when I meet him. If you're not already in a big college town, get thee hence. Otherwise, keep putting yourself out there and you'll meet someone who isn't "scared".
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