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					Originally Posted by Racnad
					
				 I guess being a man I tend to comparmentalize.  I tend to view our finances, her wieght/health, and our sex life as three separate issues.  But for her they are more connected. | 
	
  Not just connected... downright smushed into one big pile.  That's how those things are, for a lot of women (not all).  One big web... and if one part of the web isn't doing well, the rest isn't going to hold up either.  I can't emphasize this enough, how interconnected all those things are in many women's brains... tackle the one that seems the most do-able and work from there.