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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
Sorry I cant agree with that....Im a woman who means what she says....failure only comes when the other person refuses to believe I meant whatever I said
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Sex is 100% biology. Its one of our most privative retained behaviors, logic plays very little to no role in it. Now perhaps I didn't state it correctly but if a man acts like most women SAY a man should act, most women will not be attracted to that man. Its not based on logic, its that primitive part of the female brain that says 'he is too willing to please, your children need to be stronger'. In the long run I think it makes most women happier to be with that kind of man, since that basic primitive need is satisfied. I think some men get so hung up on what women want, and what they can do to please women, that they forget that women should want them and please them as well, and in the end neither are happy.
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Originally Posted by Racnad
Really.... What you wrote is essentially a twist of the "women don't like nice guys" discussion that goes on endlessley at other places where dating is discussed.
This was contraversial in the 80s/early 90s, but it seems to be pretty widely accepted now.
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Thats partly true, but I think it not quite accurate.
Its not that women don't like nice guys, as much as women like strong guys.
What women don't like are guys who are over attentive. Do everything they want and they will assume they can get someone better.