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Originally Posted by Ustwo
They rarely do in this. When I first sort of 'figured it out' I mentioned this in a group of friends (back in college) and most of the girls said I was wrong. Then after one of them who told me how wrong I was came to me and told me how right I was but she didn't want to let the other guys there know its true.
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Really.... What you wrote is essentially a twist of the "women don't like nice guys" discussion that goes on endlessley at other places where dating is discussed.
This was contraversial in the 80s/early 90s, but it seems to be pretty widely accepted now.
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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
Sorry I cant agree with that....Im a woman who means what she says....failure only comes when the other person refuses to believe I meant whatever I said
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As I've said elsewhere, women and men are diverse enough almost any statemant that starts with "all women" or "all men" is incorrect. When someone writes that there is a big difference what
many women say they want in men, and what they respond to romantically/sexually, that means that with some women, there is not a big difference.