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Thanks to everyone who has responded. I see answers in two catagories: once a month or less, and bad sex, usually with an ex-spouse. Or it's about once a week - maybe more or less according to other demands on our time, and as good or even better than early in the relationship.
Reply to Ustwo: My wife is overweight - but that's not the issue - at least with me. She was overweight when we met, and she currently weighs less than some previous periods when we more sexually active. When she is in the mood that turns me on. But when she has no libido, that is a turn-off for me. Every one to two months she decides it's not fair to enforce celebacy on me and shhe initiates, but it's mostly about getting me hard enough and her wet enough so I can get it in and finish. As long as I climax in her vagina I can't say that "we never have sex." She's not into it and it makes it difficult for me to get into it. But she feels that my expectation of a 39 year old spouse who still looks forward to being in bed with her husband and enjoys having sex in a variety of positions and places is not realistic. (BTW, we don't have kids so the biggest competition for time is the TV - and we have TiVo so the TV can wait.)
This poll shows differently though.
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