I would like to add that self-confidence is the best and most attractive accessory. It's not even an accessory, it's #1. Franky, I think it is as important-if not more so- than physical appearance.
Ballzor, When describing your self-presentation you mentioned being a little scruffy because you are a musician, and wish this status represented in your dress. What kind of girls are you interested in? If you are downcast because preppy sorority types are disinterested, you are not presenting yourself like you are one of them. If you are scruffy-and there is nothing wrong with scruffy- you are more likely to find someone with the same aesthetic. Try going to a punk rock show, or an Ani DiFranco concert, or a poetry slam.
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