Check it out--a specific, helpful response!
I like a lot of ethnic types, including the Indian from Heroes and the black ex-con, DL. What determines whether or not I like a given person of ethnic descent usually has much more to do with apparent health and cleanliness.
A lot of the Indian men I've seen have had scraggly facial hair, acne, or poor physique. Those are the Indians that I don't like. While it's possible to have attractive facial hair, it needs to be very neat and CLEAN.
Acne and irregular skin tone (another issue plagueing some Asian peoples) both indicate poor health, on a subconscious level. Take care of your skin and diet if you have these problems.
Keep your hair neat and trim, and don't put anything greasy in it. It must look clean and healthy, never oily or excessively "done-up". Fussing over your hair too much can often make a man seem sketchy or creepy--it's definitely a turn-off for me.
Finally, physical fitness cannot be ignored. This is important for everyone, but since Indians tend to be shorter than Americans (you haven't told us your height so I don't know if it's true for you), it can be difficult to get a girl to take you seriously as a potential mate unless you impress her in some other way. Sadly, height matters; if you don't have it, make up for it some other way, with confidence, a tight body, and good posture.
My favorite Indian men are the happy, gregarious young engineers in their neat, clean collared shirts and the top button undone!
Good luck!
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