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In a 32 year relationship, 28 of which has been exclusive, QW and I have gone through many phases in our sex life. We have, occasionally, gone months with no contact other than a hug and a peck on the cheek. We have (and still have) periods of total hedonistic abandon.
There is no "normal" pattern of desire. It ebbs, then flows. When it flows... it gets better all the time. The reckless gymnastics of our youth have given way a deeply sensuous sharing.
Do we do it often enough... never have, never will. But if you are with the one person that you truly wish to be with, you take what you can and make it good.
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