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Originally Posted by Ballzor
I got the 'vibe' thing down, I'm not necessarily approachable at first glance, but if I approach you or you overhear even one word out of my mouth you can tell that I'm harmless.
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Okay, but that's not what you're hearing from people. The two words you've told us that women have used to describe you are "scary" and "sketchy". So you might take the universe's advice here, and consider that you don't actually have the 'vibe' thing down, and that you're putting out signals you have NO IDEA you're putting out.
I know you think you know what's going on here, but I encourage you to expand your thinking to MAYBE include yourself in the issue. I mean, you ARE there every time somebody thinks you're scary or sketchy... MAYBE you have something to do with it, and their racism is just a convenient excuse? And, as you've said, the various things you've tried with your physical appearance haven't had any effect, right?
(I'm feeling Kpax-ish on this thread, folks. Do I get the impression that our input is going utterly unconsidered, here?)