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"Never accuse your SO of cheating unless you either have proof or are willing to end it all on that belief."
I seem to get women who were cheated on constantly in their past, and because I like to go out drinking/dancing with friends I get this question all the time. No assumptions could probably piss me off more than this one, and yes I have ended multiple relationships instantly because of this one thing. I've never cheated, I don't believe I ever will, but I will never simply put up with this question
"Ladies can get men to do almost anything by asking and being sweet/polite, however unless you have your BDSM outfit on don't expect us to be nice when you tell us to do it."
Yes, you may get what you want. Yes, you may see the light at the end of the short tunnel, but this trick only works a few times. Eventually you turn into the nagging girlfriend his friends hound on him for keeping around, or into his mother (even worse). Don't do it, we WANT to make you happy because it makes our lives better. By ordering, however, you're changing the entire dynamic of the relationship and you turn it into a lord/serf scenario and that's not what you get married for.
Seriously, it's going on with my brother at the moment... it's sickening.
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"Smite the rocks with the rod of knowledge, and fountains of unstinted wealth will gush forth." - Ashbel Smith as he laid the first cornerstone of the University of Texas
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