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Originally Posted by ejm_msp
Maybe you are upset because you aren't getting any, and your skin tone is your excuse.
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*Ding!* We have a winner!
I happen to know several women who totally swoon over an Indian dude on the show Heroes, and who all live in the South--further South than you, actually. So, Southern women don't like Indians: FALSE. And my anecdotal evidence is just as valid as yours. :P
Look: Indian guys hook up, even in the south. What women are reacting to isn't your ethnicity. It's something about the way you're being with them. Your "sketchiness" isn't about the color you are. And it's not some other permanent, fixed attribute of yourself, either. But it IS something for you to look at closely and really deal with, because that's what's getting in your way.
I went to college with a Korean guy who was adopted by an American family as a baby. He'd sometimes talk about his Asian heritage and his honor. I'd tell him: dude, you were raised by a Lutheran pastor from Wisconsin. Hell, I'M at least as Asian as you are!