Originally Posted by MEAD

Women arn't a collective whole. Just because they are mysterious to some men does not mean they conspire to keep secrets. There's a stereotype here that men are simple and women are difficult, but that's ridiculous. Women, men, people are complicated. Asking for what women want and expecting a miraculous revelation of an answer, is just a ludicrous fantasy that really just belittles the individual woman and rapes her of her personal identity. You can find your idiots guide to women in Men's health, or Cosmo, or some other cheap magazine that appeals to everyone with this kind of dilemma, but that's all that it (and this) is, a pipe dream for desperate people. Treat a woman as a individual person just like yourself. Communicate and ask her what she wants, and decide if you are willing to give her that.
But maybe this thread was just about fun and entertainment... if it is we all kinda missed the point a while ago.