I'm still sticking with my initial post. It's just like dieting: some diets work well for some people and not for others. Why? We're all different, be it physically or emotionally. What one will want or need, another may hate. Some women don't even like an honest man! Your best bet is to do your due diligent investigations, find out what makes her happy and unhappy, and to allow the act of being yourself to fit that as well as you can. No tricks. No all applicable rules of thumb. Just Tecoyah being the best Tecoyah he can be. Or anyone being the best anyone he can be.
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