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My biggest - be willing and attempt to communicate. Just as you cannot read our minds .. we cannot read yours. We don't know how our behavior may be making you feel or react, for better or worse. Be willing to call us out when we're not "making sense" so that it comes out on the table.
For me.. the "noticing" that shit is being moved is not really fair to the guy if there's not been an actual discussion as to WHY that particular location is annoying. If after the fact there is an agreement and you forget or feel lazy... just think twice before you commit yourself to something in the future if you don't like being nagged. I think we're born with that gene, to varying degrees.
Oh. And I like any guy who can give a quality foot massage has forever earned a place in my heart.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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