Everyone has given you the righteous advice, and I'd like to add some of my own.
That hurt in your heart? You know, that dull ache with the sudden flare ups of stabbing pain when you think of her? Aren't you just a little bit pissed that you feel that way? Take that hurt, and turn it into anger for the situation and then into the strength to do what needs to be done. When you wake up every morning, tell yourself that you're tired of feeling hurt and that today you refuse to feel that way. Eventually, you won't have to tell yourself that.
The BEST thing you can do for yourself is to keep your head up and don't let her phase you in any way. Even if she comes to your door, your responses should be cool and robot-like. She'll get the hint.
Good luck man, we know you can do it.
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"No laws, no matter how rigidly enforced, can protect a person from their own stupidity." -Me-
"Some people are like Slinkies..... They are not really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs." -Unknown-
DAMMIT! -Jack Bauer-
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