I stopped doing the bad behaviors by not responding to them any longer.
Put her email address in your spam filter.
Put her IM on ignore.
When caller ID comes up with her name, don't answer the phone.
She knocks on the door. Don't answer it.
She leaves a message saying she's driving over, you leave before she is to arrive.
Stop making excuses and do it already. I'd say be a man and do it but these things apply to women too. Be a mature adult and do the things you need to do for yourself.
good luck.
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I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not.
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