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Originally Posted by abaya
It sounds like you don't really want healer interacting with the other woman (which is perfectly fine, as long as he is fine with it). I think it's really important to figure out exactly how you would feel about each other interacting/cuddling/anything with the other person. Would you be okay with him caressing her as well, or only touching you? Would you be okay with her giving him a blow job? etc. Try to examine as many situations as you can, and evaluate how you would feel about those... I think it's actually more important to figure that out *before* you come to that bridge, let alone cross it, because that's when it's usually too late.
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Well, what i meant was when that topic comes up...but for now i'm just looking to find the perfect lady for us.
But you bring up some awesome points abaya...
I'm sure I would be fine with her carressing him and vice versa, I mean, what fun would it be for him if there were that boundry? Then he might as well just be watching the two of us. I want him to be part of it and I want the girl to be part of it as well.
For the most part, I want this because healer was a virgin and I deflowered him, so he's never had or felt anyone else but me and I have and sometimes I feel quite guilty about that fact. So I want him to have the experience of someone else and me to have the experience of being with another woman...if that makes sense?
And him not interacting with her or her with him would just defeat the purpose of the whole thing.
I just dont want him to cuddle with her afterward... the cuddley wuddley part is just for me
...if that makes sense.
I also think that this is no time for jealousy...I mean, this is what I want and if I want to experience it to its full extent, I should be ready for what's to come...no pun intended
What I'm saying is, I should be able to take seeing him touch another woman in that way and vice versa and I should want her to give him a blowjob or maybe have the two of us give him one together and make the experience just as worthwhile for him as it will be for me...if it makes sense?