Well to tell you, it used to weird me out to think about doing that with my SO but, recently after me joking about doing that to him he would joke back about letting me. Now I have come to learn that when a man jokes about something, he wants to lol. At least thats how it is with mine. And now, I know it would be fun, so I plan to try it soon as we can afford one lol. I say come right out and be serious about it and say you would like to try it. I bet he will admit to it then. Thats what I did and my man admitted he would like to try it
Oh and "eyecandy", I would be interested in seeing the site

I love the male butthole

Very tastey!