Originally Posted by DuneHunter

I think two women and a man are better situations. Not because the woman doesn't deserve the right to another man if the man has another woman. I'm not that selfish. But because it allows a three way pleasing. At least in a mainly straight orientation. Most men are not into other men unless it's outright homosexuality. But women can be very into men and still want to "play". Now that's not a 100% of course, but in the majority of cases it's true. In that situation each person has the chance to be pleased by both of the others. The man by the women, each woman by the man and the other woman. It tends to work out better it seems for everyone. As long as you talk deeply and openly about it with your partner and everyone is agreed.... go for it.