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Originally Posted by Racnad
The risk of it not being as good as the fantasy is one I'm willing to take, although I'd want to be very certain it wouldn;t damage the relationship. I'm also not as enthusasitc about doing a MFM with my wife, but I'd be willing to in exchange for a FMF. It's only fair that whatever I do with another woman she could do with another man.
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A word of warning: bargaining is not a good basis for having this sort of thing not damage the relationship. You should do things because you want to do them, not because it's "only fair". I guarantee you, that wouldn't work out well.
These things are frequently asymmetrical (a better word than "unfair"). Such cases are opportunities for everyone to grow up and accept their partners' boundaries.