I used to think that threesomes were something that only happened in porn, not to real people in real life (well, except for a MFM I did when I was 25).
A couple of years ago, my wife shocked me by telling me she had thought about inviting another woman to join us. I started reading about this on the internet and found that it is more common than I thought, although many people find the expereince does nto live up to the fantasy, and sometimes seriously damages the primary relationship.
The risk of it not being as good as the fantasy is one I'm willing to take, although I'd want to be very certain it wouldn;t damage the relationship. I'm also not as enthusasitc about doing a MFM with my wife, but I'd be willing to in exchange for a FMF. It's only fair that whatever I do with another woman she could do with another man.
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