abaya

It's not weird at all, at least not to me. That's one of my favorite fantasies, babe! Funny thing is, I only really fantasize about it when ktspktsp is going down on me, and I only really think about this one particular girl wearing a strap-on and using it on me (she is just a casual friend of mine from grad school, very religiously conservative, so it would never happen in reality). I don't know why, but it ALWAYS gets me very hot.

I also get very turned on by lesbian porn, though I am more into watching girls kissing and fondling each other (above the waist) than any action with the pussy. Weird, I know, but just the way my mind is. I decided that I am at least a little bi-curious, and given the chance and approval from ktspktsp in our relationship, would like to make out with a girl sometime. I don't know if I could handle an actual threesome, however... it would have to be a twosome with me and the girl, and a twosome with me and ktspktsp, but not the three of us actually touching (in other words, I don't want to see him interacting with another woman sexually). Now, if he wanted to interact with another man in a threesome, I wouldn't have any problem with that... strange, eh?

I think that's just the way sexuality is. Some things fly, some things don't, and it's just up to the people involved to determine exactly what is safe and not safe for their relationship. I say go ahead and experiment, but make sure you talk EVERYTHING over with healer beforehand, LONG before ever actually trying something, to figure out how it might affect you, what limits you'll each have, etc. And let us know how it goes!

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