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Originally Posted by analog
Second- and maybe this is just me- I've had my penis for a good while now (since I was born, in fact), and I can say for a fact that you can consciously wish NOT to be erect and it will still stand right the hell up, with or even without manual stimulation. I would think every male on the planet over the age of 13 would be similarly knowledgeable on that point... the penis does what it wants.  |
In my 40+ years of life, I have expereinced many things, but one thing I haven't experenced is NOT wanting to have an erection while a woman nearby is trying to make you to have one.
But I think think most of us have experienced erection trouble on occasions where we were in some sort of situation we weren't comfortable with, such as a woman you really don't like and have no business sleeping with.
The closest I've been to having attractive women around when I really DIDN'T want an erection was when I was about 21 years old visiting a nudist resort. I was fine hanging out by the pool, with about 50 people sunbathing and playing in the water. I figured this was because while there were a few reasonably attractive women around, there were also plently of not-so attractive naked people around, including children, elderly, and others you really don't want to see naked.
Then a guy who was acting as my "tour guy" invited me to the bar that was on the property. On the way there, the path went diectly past a film crew from the Playboy Channel who was interviewing a young lady because - well, she was exactly the sort of women the Playboy channel would want to film an interview of, especially if she were naked, which she was. Would I be able to walk within two feet of her without the fact that I found her attractive becoming obvious to all?
It turns out I could, and decided that the part of the brain that controls the erection needs to believe the sex is immenent for it to respond (although this part of the brain is easly fooled by porn, idle fastasy, etc.) Just seeing an attractive naked isn't enough.
Further, I'm guessing that about 98 percent of women could not cause me to be erect if I didn't want to be erect (even thogh I could have sex with them if I wanted), but I concede that the top 2 percent hottest (according to me) could give me an involuntary erection provided I watched them do and heard them say whatever it took.
But still, when I try to imagine a scenario where a woman uses physical force to get a penis of a unwilling, uncooperative man into her vagina, I can't think of anything that's not far fetched (mind you I'm not talking about anal rape or oral-at-gunpoint or anything like that)