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Originally Posted by bloody_rose20
And 2, women always will feel insecure if their man watches porn, because admit it, you are fantasizign about screwing the chick being done on the porn right? There, in our minds you don't want us, you want that girl. Makes us feel like shit.
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It would be helpful if you spoke only for yourself, and not for all women, because you are wrong in your generalization. I am a woman. Women will not "always feel insecure" if their man watches porn. I probably watch more porn than my husband does these days, simply because I have more time to masturbate!
I have a damn high sex drive, and I definitely want it every day.
And I do NOT feel insecure or "feel like shit" when he watches porn, because I know that most of the time, he's not "fantasizing about screwing the chick being done on the porn." (And hell, who cares if he does!! We're all human!!) He's getting off because the image in front of him is stimulating and hot. That's about the depth of what I feel when I'm watching porn, too. There is nothing more to it.
It's about getting off, not about wanting to be with someone else. Any other issue you read into it is from your own perception, not reality.
The only exception to that might be if your partner is addicted to porn, and/or uses porn to get off even when you're a present and willing candidate... or if the porn content itself is extremely disturbing, etc. But those are usually due to other issues that run deeper under a relationship, and have to be addressed by a professional. That's not the case in most men's use of porn, from my observation.