kutulu:
Your hyperbole notwithstanding, you seem to suggest that the simple act of keeping computers out of kids' rooms and having a knowledge of their online activities is comparable to prison. All we're saying is there's a minimum of protection a parent could give, and that easily begins with not giving children unlimited, private internet access.
It's not unreasonable to expect that people actually make some effort to parent, rather than sitting the kids in front of the TV and computer all day without any monitoring/supervision at all.
I suppose you'd give young children access to all the uncensored movie channels because you don't want to make them feel contained. We're not talking about having a death grip, just an actual presence and awareness of what's going on.