I don't know how much our wedding cost, but I'm sure it was too much. Weddings are so quick, it makes one wonder why they spend all the money they do on one. But, I understand wanting the big shebam to celebrate the union of 2 people.
We cut cost at the rehearsal dinner by having a cookout at my parent's house. It was relaxed and very fun. We had friends volunteer to grill and all the other food was made ahead of time.
My cousin just got married for around $700. She got her dress for $99 at David's bridal and my aunt did the alterations. My grandfather married them and the reception consisted of finger foods that were made by various family members. My uncle took the wedding photos. Not classy at all, but a celebration nonetheless and they aren't in debt over it. Most importantly, they have the same end result.
I think money is better spent on a huge vacation, or a down payment on a house in your case, than a 20 minute ceremony. But I was in the big wedding frame of mind and understand the need for 'our' day.
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