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Originally Posted by BigBaldRon
How about RESPECTING your girlfriend and NOT watching it?
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How can you respect someone who has no respect for
you and your physical needs, but expects you to be unhappy because of their emotional problems and insecurities?
I can't wrap my head around the argument set forth by many women that they hate or dislike porn because the man is looking at someone else. Well, duh. Of course he's looking at someone else. I believe it was Seinfeld that accurately described women as being sexual camels (although exceptions obviously exist). I would dare suggest that a larger percentage of women could do without sex than that of men. Considerably.
It irritates me, because it is basically saying that "I don't want to put out right now, but I don't want you to go and satisfy yourself either." What are we supposed to do, sit on the toilet with our pants in our ankles and think of you fondly? We're visual creatures. While the mind's participation is crucial, the eyes take you to places your mind alone cannot.
Personally, when I look at and jack off to porn, I don't think about fucking the woman in the porn. I don't even know the bitch. I am simply aroused by the visual stimulation of seeing a female body getting fucked. I'd rather be having sex myself, but if that's out of the question for some reason, then porn is the next best thing.
A man who refrains from watching porn just because his girlfriend/wife/whoever dislikes is not respecting his s.o. by doing so. He's just being a pussy and disrespecting himself, and allowing her to do it as well.