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Originally Posted by Infinite_Loser
I believe you all are missing the very important question: Is the woman in question hot?
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This isn't completely directed to you because other people have mentioned it also, or at least eluded to it.
Has anyone ever realized that comments like that are the reason people do not go forward and talk about being raped? If that is what is going to be said then chances are nobody is going to believe the accusation.
The guy that attempted to rape me did so more than once How did he do this more than once? The thing people always tell me is, "More than once, then you must have wanted it, but chickened out at the last minute." Then I got the, "He's so cute, I know you must have a crush on him."
No, I didn't want to have sex with him in the back of the library when I was 13. And I didn't want to have sex with him pushed against a brick wall outside by the dumpsters. I told my boss that I didn't want to go out back with him to be 'safer' because he has attacked me before. My boss laughed at me and said that J would never do that and it was unsafe to go out in the back alley after dark.
So, just because a person is hot doesn't automatically mean that a person wants to have sex with them especially forced into a situation to have sex. I never formally accused the guy because of comments that were made to me when the topic was brought up. And I'm hearing the same comments in this thread. So, yea, you'll probably rarely, if ever, hear of a man that was actually raped.