I recommend you both sit down together and read Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein. There is a part pretty far into the book where Mike the Martian is able to allow Jill to see pornography through the eyes of a male and she finally understands what it's all about and becomes more accepting of it once she can see it through a man's eyes.
Heinlein explains it way better than I can, so read it.
Grancey and I used to be friends with a couple where the wife hated the very existence of pornography. But when the husband found out I had a collection of X-rated videos on VHS, he was constantly (and VERY secretly) borrowing them. Grancey didn't care about them, so that guy was comfortable borrowing them in front of Grancey, but his wife would have brained all three of us if she'd known.
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Last edited by warrrreagl; 08-30-2007 at 10:27 AM..
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