pfft.
you love each other so much, but you cant find the time to work on the relationship - im sorry but i dont buy it - f you are that in love - and the love is that strong on both sides - you will find a way. find a way to make more time, find a way to communicate better, if the love is that strong - its GOING to withstand time apart, heavy workloads, stress, anxiety... all it takes is commitment, communication and effort on both parts to keep the relationship afloat. to me all this looks like is someone wanting an out and blaming it on being busy. and hell - there's no crime in still liking someone but preferring to be alone. relationships can be a hassle sometimes. but i would have had a lot more respect for the poster if they had said "we broke up, i still care a great deal for this person and this is a LOT harder than I thought it was going to be to end it, and i'm trying to rationalize my behavior now"
lol, of course now i look like a mean and insensitive jerk, but lol, thats ok. i dont mind.
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