I think your girlfriend is being entirely unreasonable. She doesn't like porn - and that's fine. She doesn't have to watch porn.
It's not a form of adultery. It's a form of getting your nuts off when you can't get the real thing. Or, to quote Jerry Seinfeld about masturbation, "we have to do it, it's part of our lifestyle."
I don't agree with the don't tell policy. I have lots of porn and I don't rub any of it in my wife's face. She knows I watch porn and she doesn't mind it. I just don't want to be too obvious about it, but I'd never lie about it. There's just no reason to lie about stuff like that in a healthy relationship.
I mean, what's next? Your girlfriend tells you whether or not you're allowed to masturbate?
Naw, man... No good. Stand your ground. You don't have to be an ass about it, but you don't have to let her control you like that either. Just tell her it is something most guys do, it's harmless and normal, and you're not going to stop doing it.
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