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what she doesnt know wont hurt her.
if she finds out you kept it secret, it will effect her confidence in you even more and upset her worse.
so, its a question of swings and roundabouts, isnt it?
I suppose it also is a case of if your enjoyment of porno is more important to you than hurting her feelings. Some people equate pornography to violence and exploitation - you might not share that view, but it is not totally invalid for her to hold the position that it is immoral
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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