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Old 08-28-2007, 07:38 AM   #10 (permalink)
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She doesn't think she's "good enough" for me, and that, because of my limited dating experience, I only want to be with her because she's something familiar. She feels like I'll drift away if we get too close. Ultimately, we aren't dating because we don't want to break up.
Have you given thought to her argument? Without knowing you, I can say that there she's right in assuming this, because many men are like this.

I don't generally think best friends dating is a good idea, but I do think the friendship can be salvaged from the relationship if it goes badly.
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