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Originally Posted by match000
This seems to aply to everyday life too.
It is what it is. People only get with people who like them from the get-go. Why do you always see couples who are usually of the same attractiveness? A not-cute guy ends up with a not-cute girl. A avg guy with an avg girl. A hot girl with a hot or rich guy ($ makes up for looks, for men). A obese man with an obese girl..
So in this video, had the girls been nerdier and dorkier they would have gotten it on with the first dorky guy.
edit: i think one "exception" that can change the equation is the person's self-esteem.. sometimes you see a cute girl with a dorky guy.. what might have happened is that the cute girl has low self esteem for whatever reason (she has small breasts, for example, or a big nose, or something). if the guy is 'cuter' than the girl, more often than not the guy has low self esteem (he is short, or something)..
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If that's really how you see life working, I feel sorry for you. Physical attraction is not the only factor in relationships.
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Originally Posted by albania
Generally men want to have sex with women, but women hold all the cards so to speak. Therefore, it doesn't seem unreasonable that we should have to play the game of courtship by their rules no matter how arbitrary or unfair they may seem.
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This is one of the persistent misconceptions of how people think, which is unfortunately perpetuated by pop culture and an anti-sex conservative mentality.