Originally Posted by mixedmedia

Well, lets put it this way:

I think a handsome guy can be creepy depending on what he says and how he says it.

I think an unattractive man can be charming depending on what he says and how he says it.

This is how I see it. I can't speak for every woman.

That is part of the problem.

Which is why I say again, don't even bother with this sort of interaction in the workplace unless you have an easy camaraderie with the other person involved.