My observation of people who are chronic complainers (such as your grandma Shesus, perhaps, I could be totally off base) is that they are also fearful. The things they complain about are dangerous, uncomfortable, risky, inconvenient, disquieting, confusing, out to get them or in any other way threatening to their own perception of 'safe.'
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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