Well, lets put it this way:
I think a handsome guy can be creepy depending on what he says and how he says it.
I think an unattractive man can be charming depending on what he says and how he says it.
This is how I see it. I can't speak for every woman.
That is part of the problem.
Which is why I say again, don't even bother with this sort of interaction in the workplace unless you have an easy camaraderie with the other person involved.
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