I had to learn a simple exercise to counteract my overwhelming pessimism: "What are ya gonna do about it?" Whether the answer is one of action or nothing, it made me realize that complaining was a waste of brain that could better be used elsewhere.
If she complains to you about something, try asking her that a couple of times....
Everyone's aware that life can suck-but it can be fantastic too. I had to be reminded a few times before I could grasp that. Now I embrace it.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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