http://travelwithkids.about.com/od/n..._with_Kids.htm
this might also help a little. its geared more toward families with kids tho - not toddler/infant age children. I myself avoided traveling at all costs until my daughter was 4 or 5 because it was too much hassle (single mom) but thats just me. Kudos to you for trying it and I hope its a nice trip for all of you