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If I want to compartmentalize my life like a school schedule then my relationship would turn into a robotic computerized lifestyle.
that to me would be B O R I N G.
I spend time with my SO because that's what and where I want to be. All the mundane things like going through the mail are better becuase I have someone to do those things with.
how many hours? I don't have a way of discerning. We also happen to work in the same office, so sometimes we work on projects together, have lunch together. Does that count as time spent together? or is it a coworker?
Whatever it is, love isn't the way you are living now. Unless of course you meet someone who's exactly into that lifestyle and likes to schedule time together in that manner.
Release yourself from the bondage of this notion and relax to the idea that your schedule changes because the priority of spending time with this person becomes more important to you emotionally and spiritually.
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