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Originally Posted by Racnad
So until a guy flirts, how can he know for sure if the attention will be wanted or unwanted?
What if the woman likes the atention, but she's being coy by pretending she doesn't?
In your case, is your reaction to flirting from a guy you have no attraction to going to be the same as from a guy you do find attractive, assuming that the way they flirted was exactly the same and not by itself over-the-line?
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I'd say that there is a necessary first step that entails some level of risk. The idea is to make that first step as appropriate as possible. Do it outside of work in a comfortable environment if possible. Be with a large group of people who you both know (witnesses for the defense!).