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Well... I feel like it is wrong, but it doesnt effect me emotionally because I am not doing anything wrong to anyone I care about I guess. I dont know her boyfriend, Ive never met the guy, so I dont have any feelings about him... I dont have any malice towards him - but at the same time I dont feel sorry for his situation either. Its true that I am doing something that may harm him, but his girlfriend is sleeping with me of her own free will, I havent made her do it, if it wasnt with me maybe it would be with someone else - because she isnt happy with him.
I still think there is a difference between me sleeping with someone who has a boyfriend, and someone cheating on their partner... because I am not breaking the promise I have made (explicit or implicit) to be faithful to anyone, I am not breaking my word. I think the comment someone (ndawg?) made is a good one - why do I aascribe to myself a higher moral standard than I expect from the girl I am dating on an issue like this... Ive thought about that, and I dont know... but its a good point.
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"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."
The Gospel of Thomas
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