ok, so i too, like many other women, have had a lot of self image problems and still do...which is why i think this is an awesome exercise and wana start off by saying thanks to lurkette
I'll start off by saying what i usually get from people...
1. "My child has never taken to someone so well like he's taken to this girl," said this one lady after church one evening after i was playing with her kid in church. And up comes this other lady who knows me since i was really tiny and says to the lady who's child i was playing with..."but everybody loves mandy, she's the sweetest thing".
i felt really great after that
2. Healer always tell me that he wishes he was as thoughtful as me.
3. He's constantly telling me how beautiful i am.
4. i cook real good: anything you want, i can make or bake
5. I'm a real good writer.
6. I have a good sense of humour.
7. Another thing i always hear from one of the barmen at this bar we always go to is that "mandy is always smiling, you never see her upset even when she is. she's just the friendliest person i know." and he always tells this to the person he's talking to whenever we walk in.
uuuuuummmmmmmmmmmm
8. I listen well. People always come to me when they need to talk.
9. I'm a great fiance
I always make sure that Healer is well taken care of and happy.
10. I get on well with generally everyone. I can talk for days about anything so it's really easy for me to have a conversation about anything.
I feel really awesome and it's a pity i only came across this thread now because it's really awesome! i feel good about myself